To know is to be certain. Uncertainty means that you do not know. Knowledge is power because it is certain, and certainty is strength. ~ ACIM T3.III.1:3-5 Is ignorance, bliss? Or is ignorance more of laziness? You didn’t want to learn the Truth. Learning makes you tired. After all these years of being spoon-fed about […]
“If you are willing to accept what is true in everything you perceive, you let it be true for you.” ~ ACIM T3.II.6:3 Have you been told that, as a woman, you have to be married and bear children before you reach 30? Has everyone around you talked about retirement as if everyone after 60 […]
You have not only been fully created, but have also been created perfect. ~ ACIM T2.I.3 Have you been saying that if you could be slimmer, you would be more beautiful? Have you complained about your work, thinking that if only you were with a multi-national corporation, your job would have been recognized? If you were somewhere […]
Eventually everyone begins to recognize, however dimly, that there must be a better way. As this recognition becomes more firmly established, it becomes a turning point. ~ ACIM T2.III.6 Are you not tired of raising your voice to try to settle an issue? Are you not sick and tired of trying to change the person closest […]
“Put aside logic. Do what feels right.” Spock, from the future universe, related this time-tested principle to a young Spock who is in the present universe. This was a dialogue from Star Trek, The Movie. Isn’t it true that we are so used to using logic to make a decision? If you pay for this product […]
I looked at my friend’s shoes. They seemed to be one size bigger for him. He looks short and thin, not empowered. I asked him why did he get himself a shoe that is so much bigger than his feet? He said he always bought one size bigger, he never knew why. He is 35 […]
Have you wondered if you could ever get rid of anger? Is anger management the way to understand stress and other disruptive emotions? If you are an angry person and you are taught to concentrate on anger, could you overcome it? Mileh had just finished his final year in college and he volunteered to follow […]
The ego is a wrong-minded attempt to perceive yourself as you wish to be, rather than as you are. Yet you can know yourself only as you are, because that is all you can be sure of. ACIM T3.IV.2:3-4 You can only undo your past, by living in the present. Because NOW is all you can […]
李小姐，一位成功的信托基金顾问，对我诉苦：“我的顾客都是一些商家，他们每个星期五都会聚在酒吧里，喝酒谈生意。所以，我每个星期五晚上，吃了晚饭，跟我孩子看一下电视，九点又得出门。” 我问李小姐：“你喜欢喝酒吗？” 她感叹：“应酬嘛。从事这行业的同事都是一样的。要赚钱，要close sales不是这样咯。” 生活真的这么无奈吗？是不是上酒吧喝酒的商人才有钱投资？不上酒吧的商人或不喝酒的投资家难道社会上遇不上了吗？ 李小姐感叹又觉得无奈是因为她原本想多陪孩子和丈夫，但是顾客就是金钱，为了家人的将来，无奈又如何？所以，就拼吧。 然后，有一天，孩子拿了成绩单回家，考到满江红，妈妈“拼”了这么多，辛苦了这么久， 回家来，一怒之下，就拿孩子来发脾气，一直打一直骂：“你以为赚钱很容易吗？也不是为了你们这几个瓜。。。” 其实，所骂的，都是在发泄自己的不甘愿；不甘愿做的sales，不甘愿做的应酬，不甘愿遗漏的星期五。失落的情绪，拿身边最亲的人来怒骂。以为这就是爱。因为祖父祖母也是这么样教的。 所以，“要赚钱，必须应酬，要close sales就要喝酒去”，这句话不是一个成功的定义。 也有人会说：“成功是要付出代价的。” 又是别人说的话，你如果选择相信这句话，你的人生亦如是。 我套上《奇迹课程》里的一句话：“Nothing real can be threatened 真理是不会被威胁的。“ 真理就是快乐，平安。因为，我们原本就是应该在快乐平安中达到成功的。老子曰：”人之初，性本善。” 《奇迹课程》第九章：11：9 “不是你创造的规则亦不由得你更改，就如快乐的规律是为你而订造，不由你来设计。” T9:11:9 “You cannot change laws you did not make, and the laws of happiness were created for you, not by you.”
朋友在面书上跟我聊天。他问：“你是怎么在你生活上吸引你所要的一切？”我回答：“Say Yes!” ”就是这么简单？”“Yes!” 我想了很久，怎么翻译这两个字呢？Say Yes，假如被翻译成“说是”，那种建垦，那种激昂，那种承诺，表达不周。好像话到唇边，又咽了下肚似的。 Yes! 是坚决的，肯定的，信心大增，义无反顾，破釜沉舟的立下决心，势在必行。而且，Yes！会坚持，肯努力的去完成一个心愿。因为，你知道那个心愿是来自宽阔的宇宙，你内在的“真命天子”所恩赐的。 《奇迹课程》第十四章9:3 － 一切奇迹的出现全为你“Miracles are for you.” 假如你洞悉宇宙的运作全为了你，你就知道你有多幸福了。为什么对生活还有埋怨呢？其实，生活就是这么的简单，毋需把生活复杂化。Say Yes! 心里想跳舞， Say Yes! 想去学画画， Say Yes! 新公司聘请你做售货员， Say Yes! 做一个快乐的秘书， Say Yes! 把家里的杂物整理好， Say Yes! 老板要你做新产品促销仪式的司仪， Say Yes! 参加歌唱比赛， Say Yes! 假如你心里早就对这《奇迹课程》分享会有所期待，心痒痒的一直想参与， 那就是你内在的“真命天子”一直在悄悄给你提示，你不是一直想找出生活的真谛吗？Say Yes!吧。
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